Community Guidelines

These are the rules everyone agrees to when they join. They're shown in the app too, and we enforce them.

Be 18 or over

• measured is for adults only. Everyone confirms their age before they can use it.
• If you think someone is under 18, report them. We act on every report.

Preferences are welcome. Disrespect is not.

• Being open about size, and about what you like, is the point of measured.
• Filtering is a preference, not a verdict on anyone. You can filter by size, height, body type, ethnicity, religion and more, and nobody is ever told what you filtered for.
• How you treat people is a separate thing. No harassment, abuse, threats or hate speech, and nothing demeaning about anyone's race, body, religion or disability.

Keep it consensual

• Messages on measured are text only. You cannot send a photo in a chat, and nudity is not allowed anywhere on the app.
• Keep it civil before you know someone. Unsolicited sexual messages get accounts removed.
• A match is not consent. "No" and silence both mean no.
• Never share someone else's photos, messages or stats.

Be honest

• Stats are self-reported, so be accurate. Matches can tell us when stats were not as described.
• Use recent photos of yourself, with your face visible in at least one.
• No fake profiles, no pretending to be someone else.

Keep measured for dating

• No selling anything, including sex work, drugs, crypto or promotions.
• No contact details, social handles or links in your profile.
• No spam, scams or requests for money.

What happens when rules are broken

• Photos and prompts are checked before anyone else sees them.
• We remove content, suspend accounts, and ban people for serious or repeated breaches.
• Block and report anyone who makes you uncomfortable. Reports are confidential.

Reporting something

Use the block and report tools in the app — they're on every profile and in every chat. If you can't reach them, or you need to report something urgent, email support@measured.date.

If you are in immediate danger, contact your local emergency services first.